Your home can be a cozy, welcoming space—the hub for gathering family and longtime friends. Parenthood can be an area where you shine together, too. There are differences, of course. The nature of water is emotional, while earth tends to be more grounded and practical. They need to process things in a more circular pattern, starting with their emotions and intuition—which, for water, is the most trustworthy guide.
By contrast, the water sign might want to unpack some of those emotions with a therapist or compassionate friend, rather than with the earth sign partner. The result? Earth signs can seem cold or overly harsh, doling out tough love when water sign feels sensitive. The water sign can get clingy and overly dependent, creating a parent-child dynamic. You can also get stuck in a rut of doing the same-old things or being fearful of change together. Instead of treating them like the family misfit, allow them to introduce novel ideas to the clan, and respect their greater need for independence.
There are four elements in astrology: fire, earth, air and water. Each one plays an important role in the greater whole of humankind. A love match with someone from of a different astrological element can be challenging, but also a beautiful opportunity to evolve.
After all, differences push you both to grow and step outside of your own experience. Are you a starter, a doer or a finisher? Do you like to take charge and have a plan, or do you prefer to go with the flow? In this love match, it can be hard to get in sync. Can we make a plan around here? Fixed signs crave stability and mutable signs love change.
The fixed sign in this relationship likes to make a decision or plan and stick with it. By contrast, the ever-changing mutable sign is always changing things—adding one more guest, jamming one more coffee date into their day, starting another project before they finish the 50 they already have going. Adaptable mutable signs help the fixed sign to be less rigid—to loosen up and go with the flow. For long-term success, the mutable mate will have to work harder at keeping their word, showing up on time and being consistent. Some plans are simply non-negotiable! In exchange the fixed sign will have to give an inch and be willing to try new things.
When all is good, you are deeply simpatico, nurturing one another and sharing romantic, thoughtful gestures. The downside? Your fluctuating moods may collide, causing dramatic fights that can escalate into an unnecessary cold war. You two make a really great combination. You're both Water signs, which means you're capable of incredible depths of emotion; in fact, Scorpio is one of the few signs that can provide Cancer the emotional security and connectedness that the Crab really thrives on.
This is really important to both of you. You both have hard shells that are difficult to penetrate, but you understand one another well enough to give each other the sanctuary you both crave. I sense a lot of potential for friction here.click
Scorpio and Virgo Compatibility: The Sorcerer and the Healer ⋆ Astromatcha
What you do have in common is your stubbornness and your twin desires for control. Unless there are other planetary influences at work in your chart, a casual connection may work better than anything long-term, as problems could begin when your possessive, willful natures come to the fore. And Leo, I hate to tell you this, but Scorpio will always have the last word.
As long as you two are getting along well, you make a great team. You balance one another, with Scorpio's intensity and Virgo's level-headedness. Virgo, you can help Scorpio tend to the details in life, and Scorpio, you can help Virgo grow bolder and less reserved. But these differences in nature can also be a source of conflict that may not be resolved easily. Virgo can be quite critical when things aren't going well, which in turn makes Scorpio resentful and prone to lashing out.
Well, this is an interesting combination. At first glance, this doesn't seem like the best fit, but on looking closer, you two might share an understanding that could be a good foundation for a relationship. You're both very emotional people, Scorpio even more so than Libra. In fact, that may be the only source of trouble between you, though a big one: Scorpio's fits of temper, jealousy and other emotional extremes could scare harmony-loving, flirtatious Libra away.
A great match, but intense! Friendship and loyalty are your foundation, and you share a deep understanding. You both tend toward jealousy and obsession in relationships, which could actually work here: Once made, your connection is deep, strong and passionate, and you won't want to break that bond. You both want emotional security and will give that to each other. You're both not afraid to plumb the depths of your emotions -- positive and negative but also expect to make up famously.
You two are very different. You may forge a friendship, as you both possess adventurous, courageous souls and you love intensity of experience; but Scorpio, you're a lover at heart, seeking connection and security, while Sagittarius is an explorer who seeks nothing so much as freedom and knowledge. Sag, you may unintentionally provoke Scorpio's passionate -- and jealous -- nature. You'll connect best when there is no expectation of dependency between you. You two make such a good team. There's a lot of admiration and respect between you, and you're quite similar in your ambitious, security-seeking natures.
You share some fundamental values that strengthen your connection. You do share some negative traits, too -- controlling natures, rigid thinking -- and Scorpio, you're more emotionally intense, while Capricorn tends toward aloofness; but when working together toward a common goal, you're unbeatable.
Your connection could be similar to air and water battling during a thunderstorm. The problem is, you're both stubborn and you both want it your own way. Scorpio, when you run up against a wall of opposing will, you tend to get emotionally manipulative -- not to mention sensitive. But Aquarius, your approach is intellectual; you're turned off by all that emotional intensity.
Yours will definitely be a battle of wills, as Scorpio tries to bond and Aquarius tries to resist. You truly understand one another's emotional depths.
Your connection is fluid and intuitive; lots of times you'll feel as if you can sense the other's thoughts. You communicate on lots of levels, not just verbally. Pisces, you won't mind Scorpio's possessive nature or intensity; you understand that it comes from a deep desire to connect, which is a drive that you share. You're both romantic, sensitive and responsive, and will be overwhelmed by the connection you share.
Navigating the dating scene can be as exciting and terrifying as sailing a boat in open, shark-infested waters. Your Sun Signs can reveal all of those connections, and more. The stars will help you separate the good bets from the bad ones, right off the bat. What's dating? You two want to get straight to the point. For you, that's your passionate connection, which exists on a chemical level. You'll bypass the frills -- dinner, wine, dancing -- for the real thing. Just make sure to nurture a connection that goes beyond the physical, or you may suddenly realize you have very little in common.
You're in for some red-hot romance! You two sexy signs will have lots of fun together. Taurus, you want to be wined and dined before getting serious, and Scorpio, you're perfectly willing to play the game -- in order to get what you want. You have a strongly passionate connection, so go for it. Scorpio has the tendency to get intense, fast. Your courtship will be unusual, to say the least -- and I'll be surprised if you make it past the dating phase. In the meantime, though, have fun! Scorpio, you keep up with Gemini's whims with your single-minded focus, and that secretive nature of yours really keeps Gemini guessing.
Gemini, remember that Scorpio has more layers than an onion and will make you cry like one, too. Take care not to become the fly in Scorpio's web. Cancer, you possess a highly sentimental soul, while Scorpio, you try to stay away from sentimentality; you consider yourself much more serious and profound than anything so mushy as that. But really, dating is supposed to be nice and romantic and fluffy, all the frills that Cancer loves. Scorpio, you'll play the game to get to the deeper stuff you desire And that's okay. You're both there for the same reason: the emotional connection, which you have in spades.
As long as you keep it light between you, you can have a lot of fun together, but don't expect things to stay light for long. Leo loves to live it up, and Scorpio, you're happy to go along for the ride -- with your eye on the goal. But Leo, Scorpio's intensity will take you by surprise. And don't think for a second that you're the one calling the shots! In courtship, as in every other area of life, Scorpio is quietly at work orchestrating the scene. You know, this combination could work pretty well.
Virgo, you're a frugal person and don't like to get too extravagant on dates, which suits Scorpio just fine.
Virgo and Scorpio Compatibility: Love, Life, Trust and Sex Compatibility
Scorpio, you're too interested in the end goal -- intensity of connection -- to care much about how you get there. You'll find that with Virgo, what you see is what you get. Your usual methods of courtship, which can include some game-playing and manipulation to get what you want, simply aren't needed here. Libra, in this courtship, you're probably the one in charge -- at least on the surface.
You love to go out for drinks, hopping from one art opening to the next and greeting all your many, many friends. And Scorpio, you're happy to go along, to see and be seen. You enjoy all the social activity that comes with dating a Libra, but more than that, you have your eyes on the prize.
Who Is Most Compatible With Scorpio?
Libra, don't be fooled -- Scorpio's making its own plans behind the scenes! On your own, you both tend to get serious fast; together, you can just double that tendency. You're both all about cutting to the chase, so expect your courtship to be like a whirlwind or maybe more like a tempest. Your bond is strong and intense from the start; you understand each other intuitively and desire to know each other down into your souls. I wouldn't be surprised if you move things right along to a commitment. Yours will be a fun, active courtship, but there's a power struggle being waged just under the surface.
Scorpio, you're attracted to Sagittarius's knowledge and energy, and you want a real connection, even a commitment. Once you've set your mind on that goal, you'll do what it takes to get there, but Sagittarius will rebel at the first sign of manipulation or dependency. Try to keep it light. For Sag, this should be easy; for Scorpio, next to impossible. Neither of you is big on dating; you're both more into pursuing your personal agendas.
In this case, that should work out fine, as long as your agendas match up. You're both looking for stability, which you'll likely find together. But Scorpio, you may find that Capricorn's emotional responsiveness is dryer than what you're used to, or what you crave. You will admire one another, however, for your individual achievements, and will discuss your ambitions right off.
Scorpio, you like to be in control, but if you're dating an Aquarius, accept that you're about to go places you never dreamed of! This sign will resist all your attempts at manipulating the situation, so don't even bother. Instead, enjoy being whisked off to sights unimaginable, where you'll sample unusual cuisine and take part in rituals you never dreamed of. And don't be surprised when Aquarius pays as much attention to everyone else in the room as to you.
What a romantic courtship! Pisces, you live for romance -- in fact, you live and breathe love and connection. Scorpio knows this, and will work to create an experience that will live sacred in both your hearts for a long time. Expect all the traditional trappings of a romantic date -- flowers, gifts, murmured words of affection -- and, knowing you two, some creative and unexpected flourishes, as well. You'll quickly grow devoted to each other, and could become inseparable. If you want to marry, connecting with the right partner is essential — that special person you can love, support and lean on through both good times and challenging ones.
After all, marriage is about so much more than just romance or attraction.
Which Sun Signs are your most promising matches for a long-term relationship? Is your lover as commitment-minded as you are? What does your spouse need to feel truly adored? The stars hold the answers to all of these questions, and more. Marriage Compatibility is an important tool in creating a loving and enduring bond.
Once you possess this knowledge, you can move forward toward the union of your dreams. Together, you're burning off Karmic points while burning up the sheets. You have drive and intensity in common, but take care not to turn all that intense energy against each other; that could get ugly fast. You work together best when you have a project that's close to both your hearts; together you're quite creative.
You're both fixed signs, capable of deep commitment, so you'll see your relationship through to the end -- for better or for worse. The possessiveness and jealousy that are natural to both of you could be the downfall of your relationship, so take care to communicate well and be above-board with each other.
You've got the persistence to overcome problems, and you won't part lightly. What an odd and interesting long-term connection you two have! This is definitely a relationship that will earn you Karmic brownie points, because you're in for some trials together. You have a lot to learn from one another. Scorpio's in it for the long haul and takes things a bit too seriously -- including, at times, Gemini's nature.
Gemini, you must have some Scorpio in your chart to make this work -- or even get to the point of commitment. You'll make a great long-term combination. Once you both make the commitment, it will be hard to break -- for better or for worse. And the "worse" part could get intense; moody Cancer's feelings are easily hurt, and Scorpio, well, you define emotional intensity.
But Cancer, you're not afraid of Scorpio's intensity, and you understand that within both of you, your emotional waters run deep. Home is definitely where the heart is for you two; you are each other's rocks. Well, this should be an interesting combination. Once you both make the commitment, you'll both see it through to the end -- which could be bitter.
If you get far enough to make a long-term commitment, you probably share some other planetary influences, because otherwise, you're just working at cross-purposes. You're both quite possessive and stubborn, and will find it difficult to compromise. After some time, it will be hard even to communicate. Once you make the commitment, Scorpio, you're in it for the long haul.
And Virgo, you want security and trust in your relationship, which you could find with Scorpio. You make a good team when both your strengths are utilized -- Virgo's practicality and attention to detail, and Scorpio's emotionalism and boldness. Just be careful when conflict rears its ugly head, which it will. Virgo must be the peacemaker here, as Scorpio will be busy nursing its resentments.
Once you arrive at the point of commitment, you're here to stay, because Libra is the sign of marriage and Scorpio has intense staying power Scorpio, are you ever anything but intense? And your emotional bond runs very deep. The only issue between you? Libra hates confrontation and will do almost anything to avoid it, while Scorpio almost enjoys the heady rush of fighting and then making up. But your connection and commitment should pull you through. You two share a funny little quirk: Even when you're miserable in love, you're happy. You're just not fulfilled unless you experience the extreme highs and the utter depths of human emotion in your intimate relationships, and with another Scorpio, you will.
Your loyalty and, sometimes, your sheer stubbornness will hold you together, even through the roughest patches. Expect power plays, dramatics and a lot of love, and a bond that's very, very hard to break. Scorpio, you want that deep, intense connection that you can rely on, even when the going gets rough; but Sagittarius tends to hurt your feelings without meaning to, and will resist your attempts to bond. And Scorpio's idea of a satisfying connection just might be too heavy for you, Sagittarius. Long-term commitment goes against your nature; to make one, you must do it freely and at your own pace.
Scorpio, that means don't push! You've got a rough path to follow. A long-term relationship between you will be a true partnership, and like everything Capricorn does, it will get better with time. You're both rather serious in your own ways, and are likely to get serious together fast. Scorpio, you seek a level of emotional intensity that Capricorn just may not be able to provide; but the good news is, Capricorn works hard at everything, and that includes your relationship.
You'll settle into a good, strong grove together over time.
Venus enters Scorpio
I hope you share planets in common, because a long-term connection might just be too difficult to work out otherwise. It will take lots of understanding of your very different natures: Scorpio, you must give Aquarius plenty of freedom, and accept that you just can't cling to this Sign; and Aquarius, you must accept Scorpio's emotional nature and provide as much security as possible.
If you make it to the commitment stage, you're both in it for good. You'll make a really good long-term match. What binds you together is your intuitive connection, your deep understanding of one another's natures. Scorpio, you're the rock in this relationship, and Pisces will depend on you for emotional support, which you're glad to provide. Pisces, you're the caretaker here; you nurture your Scorpio lover and act as the safe harbor for Scorpio to come home to. Together, your fluid natures become solid.
But sometimes passion can take you by surprise, sizzling to life out of nowhere. Is it just the indefinable whims of chemistry, or is there more to it than that? Astrology holds the key! Passion Compatibility can help you decode the mysteries of attraction.
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